The beauty of meeting and communicating online is that you can gradually collect information and then make a choice about pursuing the relationship in the real world. You are never obligated to meet anyone - regardless of your level of online intimacy. And even if you do decide to arrange a meeting you always have the right to change your mind. The beauty of meeting and communicating online is that you can gradually collect information and then make a choice about pursuing the relationship in the real world. You are never obligated to meet anyone - regardless of your level of online intimacy. And even if you do decide to arrange a meeting you always have the right to change your mind.